Mirror.

In that mirror, she saw her blemishes and imperfections. She saw the woman who use to get berated by him and was called ugly and made to feel unloved. The one who use to cry herself to sleep, but now doesn't even bother closing her eyes, because she can't risk seeing those moments play out again. In this mirror, she sees her strength and amazing attributes. She sees a woman who gets told constantly how wonderful and beautiful she truly is and shown through actions, what it feels like to be cared for. A woman who now smiles before she sleeps and dreams of being held again and kissed gently on the forehead. The one who can't wait to play out these moments again. While there is only one of us, there are many reflections we can see. Depending on the mirror, some might be fairly accurate and some might be extremely distorted. But no mirror will ever capture the full picture of who you are. Don't be beholden to an image from a broken mirror, look for a new one who sees you for what you are and won't try to taint your image, but simply celebrate it instead.

Be the change, Stop Complaining About the Community

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“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

Eh, so much drama and complaining about people and the community. Look you choose the people you surround yourself with. You choose the part of community that you want to be a part of. If you don't like it, CHANGE IT. Sitting on your asses and complaining doesn't do anyone any good. Getting OFF your asses and doing a little hard work will prove much more productive and your life much happier. It isn't easy. It WILL cost you in many forms.

If you are happy wallowing in your negative life and bitching up a storm then do it in a mirror and not to everyone else. We don't need you feeding that crap into the positive and good that so many have worked hard to create for themselves and others.

COMMUNITY, we have it for SUPPORT. We have it for SAFETY. We have it because those who love the lifestyle worked their asses off to BE THE CHANGE. Is it perfect NO, will it ever be, NO. But if you truly want to be a part of something incredible it is out there to be found!!!! LOOK past the weak and shallow, find the people & groups who are true to the lifestyle that want to see you grow and become another grand part of all the good things happening.

BE THE CHANGE THAT YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD.